Reply to a friend: We always get exactly what we need – whether we like it or not.
Disappointment can escalate to annoyance and even anger.
Usually we want the other to change so we can feel better.
We are asleep to being asleep.
Unless it is fun for you, it is not likely to happen.
You are your own barrier to what is available here now.
Any discomfort dissipates by being with – choicelessly.
Meditation, Tantra, the Left Hand Path & the edge of darkness.