When we all wake up we will be amazed at how unintelligent we have been about
marriage. One of our more ridiculous behaviors. How undeveloped we still are.
To me, marriage sounds more like a funeral – of freedom.
Whenever I hear that someone is getting married it seems so ‘old
fashioned.’ Like we used to do ‘in the old days’ when women were not free.
But now? Still? Haven’t we moved on from that situation where women did not
have any other choice?
Surely, true love, and friendship, should not need a contract?
And ‘Until Death Do Us Part.’? Each moment dies each moment.
The very act of marriage is a sort of death – of freedom. No freedom, no
joy. Anything fixed is doomed. Some of the happiest people I have met
were in Africa – in tribes where there were no fixed relationships.
Just check out for yourself your feelings the phrase:
‘Cheating on the partner.’
Yet most want to invest in the illusion of safety, security and
predictability. Have you seen much of that lately? Of course not
– these things are just fantasies created by our insecure minds.
So few people ready to live in the creativity of this very moment.
Yet that is all there is. The rest is just our programmed minds attempting
to produce something that just cannot be. All IS Change.
We come together at an appropriate time, and as we all evolve at different
rates, we need to constantly assess to see if our partnerships are still
appropriate. Not running away – we got together so the other can show us
where we react, and thus are not awake.
I love, love. I love to see two people happy together. Better still I love
to see threesomes, or more, who are happy together. Not very often.
Can two, or more people live joyfully together in freedom? In theory yes.
( Know any? )
The healthy way is communities. Lots of people living and moving together.