I am not intimating anything that you or anyone is doing is wrong,
or even not appropriate for them at the moment. It seems each needs
to be doing whatever they are doing – until it is no longer appropriate.
It seems we all have to go through whatever we need to experience –
until we have the realisation for ourselves that what we are still doing
is no longer appropriate for us.
We need we see ourselves and our actions more clearly.
As just an idea, or because we read it somewhere, or someone
told us, or because we want the results of what we see in someone
else as living a more conscious way, will not work – we need to have the
realisation for ourselves.
(Plus, whatever someone is doing that activates our judgement is a gift –
it helps us to see that part of ourselves that we have not yet seen
clearly enough to disconnect from and no longer support.)
Seems there are no shortcuts – just more or less rapid realisations.
We all need to experience for ourselves everything we need to.
And how to expedite that realisation? –
Be total in whatever we are doing.