If you get out of the way, and allow yourself to be empty,
a part of the other person will talk through you.
Something else about being with people and helping them.
This is essential. It is also essential for you not to get exhausted in that situation. And so you have to listen very carefully, because our whole conditioning, our whole life has been about achieving, goal oriented. Whatever we do it’s, “Oh, we have to have a certain result.” and that … paralyzes your creativity. Forget results … and just be there with what is in the moment.
And if you’re guilty about taking people’s money, ’cause you’re doing a session, and nothing comes through, it’s easy. Give them the money back! Don’t look for a result. Get out of the way and don’t know … anything.
And the thing is – this is the way I see it – if you get out of the way, if you’re empty, if you’re not looking for a result, one part of them, that they are not in touch with, will talk through you. You will tell them exactly what they need to hear through you. That part of them, that they’re not in touch with, connects with a part in you, and you give them on another level what they need to hear. And if it doesn’t happen, it doesn’t happen.
And I know this is very hard to get. … Each … moment … is perfect. Absolutely perfect! If nothing comes through, that’s exactly what needs to happen.
Each … moment … is perfect.
So let go of results, and just be.