We are not all living in the same time-dimension.
Most people, most of the time, are not in the present.
Either in the past, or the future – as defined as not being in this very
*If you are carrying any regret; if you have any thoughts of revenge; if
you are holding resentment, anger, judgement, complaint – you are not in
the present, you are not in the land of the living – your main energy is
anchored in the past.*
Therefore your love is not total, is not pure – your love is contaminated
by any past you are holding. (Even ‘the good stuff.’) Your love energy has
to pass through all the other ‘stuff.’
And forgiveness is not the solution.
Forgiveness is not possible – because there is nothing to forgive.
Whatever the situation – you were at least fifty percent responsible. And
still are. And, although your clouded mind is not letting you see it -you
did the best you could in the circumstances. We always do.
That one is not easy to explain – so maybe sit with it?
Instead of forgiveness, more appropriate is gratitude –
“thank you for giving me the opportunity to observe my behaviour more
To help experience more clearly.
Have you ever thought that a friend had ‘done you wrong’ felt the energy
of that, and then, when finding out that they did not do what you thought
they had done – the great feeling of relief that comes with letting go?
Wonderful. Good incentive to let go of the past?
Apart from the contamination of each and every moment, another aspect to
consider is what is happening to that held energy. Although the energy
being held is of the past, it is not old – it is present. And it is not
passive – it has consequences. The negative energy you are holding is
poison – and it is poisoning you – body, mind, emotions – and what you
consider your love for anyone.
Time to clear? You can you know. That energy does not stay there without
your active permission. Without you holding it, it cannot be there – it
So what is the holding process? Your mind is trying to justify. It never
wants to be wrong. It is always the other person who is at fault – or that
part of yourself for which you do not want to take responsibility.
So take some time, and just sit. Let the mind go to any situation you are
still holding, and feel yourself dropping into it. Have any sensations
that arises, take responsibility for your part, and just let it dissolve.
You can you know.
It may linger, may pop up, come to the present. Be present with the
energy and the thought, and disconnect – not supporting, not suppressing.